RELATIONSHIP BLUEPRINT 09: Measuring the Success of Your Creation

Woman's hands holding two broken mirror pieces which are reflecting two parts of her face at different angles

During this phase, you will serve as a compassionate mirror for your partner, reflecting emotions, observations, and shared experiences amassed over the preceding months of work. In turn, you will also receive this invaluable feedback from your partner. Central to this process is the practice of transparent and sincere communication, coupled with the ability to embrace feedback with openness and understanding, without anger, defensiveness, or perceived criticism.

At this stage, you will possess a deep understanding of the Creation Process - exploring the outcomes of your creations and identifying the extent to which they align with truth, or are shaped by illusion. You will learn how to recognize results that stem from inauthenticity, understand how they were manifested, and explore transformative methods to re-align them.

You will also learn how to differentiate between genuine connections and those rooted in illusion. As you refine this ability, you will notice a clear contrast in how they resonate within your heart. Illusions may appear enticing at first, but they will leave you feeling emotionally detached or cold. In contrast, genuine connections will evoke warmth and a sense of emotional fulfillment.

Navigating Stage 9 involves embracing the complexities inherent in relationships, during which profound truths about ourselves are ultimately uncovered. This insight helps us strengthen connection, encourage collaboration, and empower meaningful and decisive action.

During this workshop, you will:

  • Explore the role your partner plays in your personal development, and how they often illuminate hidden aspects of your personality.
  • Engage in sincere self-reflection, embracing both the positive and negative aspects to cultivate genuine self-appreciation and acceptance.
  • Become aware of moments when you use masks to conceal aspects of yourself that you dislike, and understand the possible consequences.
  • Gain insight into how any tendencies for self-blame can affect your self-esteem, your interactions with your partner, and your ability to express yourself creatively.
  • Make conscious choices between authenticity and illusion, that align with your true self.